OOOOh, somebody's jealous, and I wonder who HE was....!!!
I don't think your husband will ask any questions..it WOULD put him on the spot with you. He needs to think about what he's doing, and I don't think you were "rude"..sometimes they NEED to wonder what's going on, especially if you ain't talking about it.
They like to think they are in control of everything, and once in awhile, they DO need to see they AREN'T in control of anything the LBS is doing.
I'd say you did fine..you didn't do anything wrong, and your husband made assumptions that just weren't true, and you owe him NO explanation IF he were to ask you about it.
I know my husband acted really weird when I talked to another male, and that had an effect on him that I didn't know about until later on when he finally talked to me.
I never did anything wrong, but his head really went south...regardless of what he did to me..I wasn't supposed to do "anything" to him...funny; I really didn't do anything. LOL!!
But, I let him think what he wanted to, especially when I changed my hairstyle and stuff. It only served to hasten his journey back toward me.
Just me thinking some thoughts tonight.
Have a good one.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.