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My WAS is making plans for her 'new' life, and treats me without any respect.



Lesson to learn here...

You ALLOW her to treat with without any respect.

Sometimes the bully doesn't treat someone with respect until that person is willing to "take on the bully and fight".... that is how many a bully respects or does not respect a person. Only those willing to stand up to the bully get their respect. Food for thought.