By me trying to assert myself by going 'dark' it has re-inforced my W's belief I am selfish.

I was reading some posts by gucci loafer on v1olin situation and it makes for intersting reading.

gucci, could you advise me on my situation, as I know my W is not coming back, but I need some focus on my situation.

Last edited by markhaving probs; 04/06/10 06:18 AM.

Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years