Ok.. So you back off and tell her you agree with the divorce and such... Good move...
You begin to leave her alone and she contacts you.
Only a few days after YOU agree with her about the divorce she suddenly tells you she "was going to ask you to dinner" but you were busy.
And now you are going to try and pull this off like "friends' while buying all new clothes, picking a great restaurant, wearing the cologne of the decade and on and on...
You can NOT try to go out with a woman you have KNOWN for a long time and try to act like it is just friends, and then be dressed to the nines and trying to smell like a GQ man..
She is going to see right through that. Confident men call it what it is.. A DATE. If not, then tell her you take a pass...
You need to make her work for this. You back off for a few days and she starts to come around and now you are heading for disaster. You already told her you AGREE with her decision. Let her see you meant it. IF.. And I mean IF she wants you back she WILL try again. Please don't be so easy. What you are doing IS working and now you are going to change what is working? Doesn't make sense.
