Need some advice with WAH

[Swiss Miss]

Thank you, I will look for a FT with an infidelity background so I'm ready. We had what I thought was a good MC but in hindsight it was really obvious that H was involved with someone else and I really think this guy should have known it. I went back once by myself and said my mom had figured it out, and he said he hadn't!

There's no way I'm going to sit and wait in a corner for months, but I am going to watch what H does for a week or so. Timing is everything, I've learned. H really does seem to have changed some since the PA discovery, and I do wonder if he was thinking of trying to work things out (he was starting to pursue me more) and he thinks he's blown it. So I don't want to blow it myself by jumping the gun. I do wish I'd had all of this about four months ago, when it would have had a full chance of working, but doesn't everyone here say that. Thanks.