Just when you think things couldn't get any worse they do.

i woke up this morning to find out that my D is in Juvy for stealing my W car. My W found her at the McDonalds parking lot and she fled. She turned up hours later and my W pressed charges and had her go to Juvy.

One of our friends that my W had cast aside showed up to help her. The friend told her at least I'll be home in a week and she wont have to go through this alone. My W told her that i was the reason for the this because i never did anything before. What a crock of B.S.

My W called and spoke to me and said we went wrong somewhere. i didn't have the heart to tell her what she is doing caused this. everything was fine with my D until my W told her about us. they fought and fought and now this. However, she has the balls to blame me.

We talked again later and i asked her to do me favor and not try to blame me. She acted completely surprised and asked me what I was talking about. i told her that i was informed that she was trying to blame me for this. i said pointing fingers at anyone isn't going to change what she has done, but we can together change what she does from here.

I also found out that my W tried to blame my downfall over here on our friend. After my W told me she wanted a D i got depressed over here. Some time later a friend called and told me to cover my a$$ because my W was. i never told my wife I was told this, but she told the friend the other day that she caused me to go downhill for saying this to me.

My W doesn't know how to accept blame for anything she's doing. She keeps pointing fingers at me or everyone else. the only people that believe her are the ones that only have her side of the story and don't really know me. She's obviously feeding her C a load of crap as well.

i have so much to look forward to when i get home don't I. They really meant it when they said to believe nothing they say and 50 % of what they do.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept