I have my good and bad days. I'm not doing as good as a job as you think. I start R talks even though she doesn't want to hear them.
I think she yells at me b/c of guilt. D12 is old enough to notice how mom cares more about herself than her or me. D12 has been making comments and my W thinks I've put her up to it.
BTW - Now is the best time for detaching. Both you and him no longer have an emotional investment in your stich. My W's MLC drives me nuts too. It's a shame you can't hang in a little longer. I was told that people change every 7 years. And you already waited 5 years but he maybe working his way out of the haze.
