Glimmerman, thank you. Your advice is sound. Your comment about my W feeling like she is not heard or valued is spot on. You give me something to think about. My C told me the same...to value my W's opinion and hear her. What you just said hit me like a ton of bricks. I have been working so hard on certain improvements but in the process I have forgotten to value my W. How can I expect to make any progress with her if I don't show her that I do value her opinion. Thank you again Glimmerman, I needed that, I needed that reminder. Puts it all in perspective for me.
I think you're right. I have been doing things my way. I know she wants to sell it. I just feel like I need a little more time to come to terms with it. I'm going to tell her to bring in the house cleaners.
Thank you Glimmerman.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch