Need some advice with WAH

[Swiss Miss]

When I confronted him a few days ago (I didn't answer his phone calls for the first day) I told him I wanted to start working on the D. He told me in a second phone call he didn't want to rush into anything. I told him that some day a man would be very happy he'd done this to me (read that somewhere, very good point) and he told me maybe he'd be that man someday. I took that to mean he'd be happy without me but then I realized he meant maybe someday we'd be together due to all the changes through this. I kind of went off on him, saying he'd be happy he cheated on me, and he was pretty confused about why that made me so angry, that's how I know he meant the opposite.

Both of those things kind of slipped out and I haven't acknowledged that he said them. He doesn't divulge things easily but I figure that if he meant them, he'll show me. The day I got back from the trip where I found out about the PA he finally took care of a big project for me (a bunch of files from his computer that he said he'd give me) that he's been putting off for months, and he's jumped on a couple other things. We've gotten along well after I got over the initial anger stage, but he's gone above and beyond since this latest D-Day.