How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

My W thinks my friend at her workplace is my spy. Therefore she does not like him anymore. So if she sees or hears that I was talking to him she will automatically assume it was so he can tell me what's going on there.


You don't want to know how this department operates lol...but I get what you are saying.

My intentions were not to be controlling but I can certainly see where I came across as such. If I a apologize at this point it will rehash it and put her in a bad mood. I feel the best way to get past this (what happened earlier) is react more positive and supportive if it comes up again and create enough positive to overcome this negative