Gucci, give it to me straight here. After reading this post, do you still think selling the house is the right thing to do?
My point wasn't a matter of selling the house. You have led her to believe that is what you were doing. No?
You are now sounding like you really don't want to sell it. This is you being wishy washy. Wishy washy is another unatttactive trait women don't respond well to.
Stop being wishy washy. Make a DECISION. Sell or not sell. If you decide to sell, then MAKE it happen... Show her decisiveness and get it on the market.
IF you don't want to sell then what in the world are you doing leading her to believe you are selling it? Again. Wishy washy. Not good.
If I were you I wouldn't sell it. PERIOD.
"Wife, I have been doing some thinking and I have decided that I am NOT going to sell this house. I WANT it."
Time to step up to the plate and assume she is going through with the divorce. Take care of numero uno....
Be decisive and stick to it. Buy her out or figure out something else. Do NOT sell if you want it. That would be stupid and silly. I am not into stupid or silly. Are you?
