Fantastic insight. I cheated with my triathlon bike after giving up on my W doing anything other than shopping. She found it relaxing, I found it a waste. I enjoyed the reward of fitness while she withdrew. I attempted patience, empathy, encouragement to no avail. Even now I added her to my gym membership in January - no visits for her since. She complains about her weight, but does nothing about it. She is living apart still with OM yet invites me to activities with kids when she has them. I feel closest to her when doing things together, yet she always had an excuse - until now. Is she reaching out after me pulling away. Confusions sets in yet I'm tempted to be active with the kids; and her.
M / W: 43 D8 S6 M 10 years / T 13 years W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09 Separated in same house 10.6.09 W moved out 2.27.10
