Is LRT applicable here?

[robx]

yup, definitely so, a new DIFFERENT cologne would be great, don't be afraid to experiment, a few of my personal favorites:
Black Code - Giorgio Armani
Polo (original) - Ralph Lauren
Contradiction - Calvin Klein

splurge a little, you're worth it!

[mindfull]

Fergalicious! You could be the envy of all here! You could have a Mindfull make-over, FOR REAL! LOL

HUGS, friend. Off to soccer from hell in rain!

[pearlharbr]

Just remember that scents work differently on everyone. Pick the one you like best, then ask a female sales associate or a woman passing by if she likes it on you.

Mmmm, I love it when a man smells nice. In fact, BF knows this and will put on his aftershave or lotion (I picked out both) if he wants me all over him. My nose immediately goes to his neck if I catch a whiff.

One more thing: make sure that you schedule dinner for a day/time that works for you. Don't change anything for her. If it has to wait a week or more for your schedules to align, so be it.

[mindfull]

Black Code - Giorgio Armani
Contradiction - Calvin Klein

Gee, Rob... I'll be right over to smell ya! YUM!

[robx]

the Black Code works extremely well,
I can tell you this because all the ladies in the office will literally rub their noses on my neck, another one I'm enjoying lately is PHAT FARM Cologne Pour Homme,
I personally have always enjoyed wearing cologne and experimenting with new scents that I enjoyed and that I knew others enjoyed as well. Once you get into this routine, it's easy to maintain it, I feel naked without cologne - it's my thing.

[Fergie]

Geez. I leave for a few hours and it turns into Love Connection around here. I have my two cents, but I need to formulate for a bit.

--Fergie

[Fergie]

I don't know... I don't see a question mark, or anything that requires a response. -- Jeff

Jeff, let me introduce you to girl-speak -- BobbiJo

That was girl speak. Girls aren't used to be rejected like us guys, so they aren't direct. I picked up on that.

This is where it can be difficult. If you're totally dark it's SO much easier than having positive interactions. But I have faith that you can do it. -- Pearlharbr

^^^^ this ^^^^^
This is exactly what I'm worried about. I was willing and able to have a positive interaction when I was pursuing. But now it is much harder. I treated our mini-date (after the second week) like a first date. I came prepared with all the first date questions. Kept the conversation rolling. Frankly right now, I couldn't give a crap who her favorite elementary teacher was or who her childhood pets were. I already know what she will say to idle chit-chat. This isn't going to be as easy as it sounds.

order the steak and lobster -- Rob

This might sound blasphemous, but I don't like lobster. I'll order the crab instead.

And a nice glass of wine! -- Pearlharbr

Geez. I'm picking.. ummm.. Pearl, Rob, and Mindfull to go in my place. Or better yet, I think everyone should get to go!

New clothes wouldn't be complete without a new scent. Pick out some new cologne too.

I'm good on clothes. But maybe some new slacks. And shoes. Okay. I've gotten cologne recommendations for:
Black Code - Giorgio Armani
Polo (original) - Ralph Lauren ( I like Polo, but it seems a little strong and pine-y for me)
Contradiction - Calvin Klein
PHAT FARM Cologne Pour Homme

I've got:
Obsession - Calvin Klein (meh)
Red - Giorgio (meh)
Burberry Summer - (W picked)
Cologne - Thierry Mugler (my absolute fav, W doesn't like)
and I just found a brand new bottle of
L'eau D'issey - Issey Miyake (the W picked out before she left and I never got a chance to wear)
and finally
Burberry mini set (not sure what is there)

If this date is W oriented, I'd be inclined to wear the Issey Miyake. Or I could just pick something new I like.

So, I need to be able to maintain a mundane (non-R) conversation for at least an hour. Pick an exact restaurant, date, and time (that actually will be a 180 for me). Taking separate cars (just in case). Keeping it in the same perspective and a casual friend I did a favor for (I helped her move, this isn't a b-day dinner to me). Did I miss anything?

--Fergie

[Virtually_Handsome]

I don't know... I don't see a question mark, or anything that requires a response. -- Jeff

Jeff, let me introduce you to girl-speak -- BobbiJo

That was girl speak. Girls aren't used to be rejected like us guys, so they aren't direct. I picked up on that.

I think that letting her get away with girl-speak is putting her in control of the situation. I'm not going to say don't respond (though it's my first instinct), but wait at least a day longer than you think you can!

[pearlharbr]

First of all, I think Jeff is right. My first thought was to not respond unless you are asked a question. But, if you're inclined to go since Rob thinks you should...

Yes, you do need a new shirt. I don't care if you have ones you already like. The point is to shake things up and do something different. Do you have a Robert Graham? They're pricey but gorgeous. If you can splurge, that's what I'd recommend. And if you are near a Nordstrom Rack you can usually find one or two there for about $80 (reg. price is $200+). Use this opportunity to try on a new look. And shoes too! I love it when a man is wearing great shoes.

No, this is not W-oriented. Pick out a new, different cologne. Get the scent you like.

Did you always let/make W make the plans? Not sure I'd pick the location since that means you're doing the work for her. But if it's a good 180, then ok.

Definitely take separate cars. Stick to small talk. Talk about yourself. This is where it would be good if you had a new hobby to discuss. But general small talk will work. What do you discuss with coworkers (besides work)? Or other acquaintances?

[BobbiJo]

Ok, so you are 'meh' on Obsession for Men. But I will say that is one that will attach my mouth to your neck... The only one on the list I know I don't care for is Polo, the original....overdone and dated IMO. Prob same with Obsession really, I just relate it to the hot guys in college...

My x's old boss wore a bunch of Faconnable shirts, they were nice...

How can you not love lobster? I will let it slide since you do like crab...

At best I would go Dutch, if you want to view it as a friend thing. I would not buy her dinner though....