Nine years and yes, although I believed the line he told me that he never loved her (his friends say that's the case - he was dating her for a week when she got pregnant) so I was OW but thought it was legit, if that makes sense? It was a different type of M with her. She got pregnant, had a kid, few years later he asked for D, she begged and pleaded, went off birth control and took fertility meds.
