Fixer, I think you have done the most fabulous job at hanging on to your M. You W sounds like me at times. My H tells me I`m hot and cold. I am, and I yell at H. It`s because he frustrates me with his MLC behavior. Why do you think W yells at you? What`s the tone in your voice? My H has the most arrogant tone at times. I must learn to detach better while we`re still under the same roof.