While she is high on the affair drug it is a great time for you to get EVERYTHING you deserve legally. Get her out of the house ASAP! Stand strong on that one! Get your 50/50 agreement done and SIGNED on. I think you did a great job of confronting her.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final