They are very upset with her decisions. 1st to start the divorce and now very upset with the fact that she is seeing someone else who she has denied since the start. She has told them to respect her decisions. She tells me they just want her happy and they respect what she has decided. They say she is out of line and that they don't agree with her decisions and feel she is making a horrible mistake. They told her if they have to decide they will choose me. he is not allowed to see her family for at least a year after the D is final.
Sorry, but they aren't going to change her mind. No one, except HER, is.
Let her deal with her family. Maintain your relationship with them, if you want. But don't try to use them to influence her. That will not work.
