Actually your W didn't pull you into an argument, you kind of sounded like you were inviting one. If she didn't invite you , you shouldn't have tried to get yourself invited. Once maybe, but it seemed like you kept pushing the issue.
"Me: "that's ok, I get the point. You don't want me there and that is fine I understand."
Bad move. Your feelings were hurt and you showed it. Next time just shrug it off.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.