When my W first return home from work she told me she was going to a benefit for a co-worker that was diagnosed with cancer. When she first mentioned I said nothing but was waiting for the right time to ask if I could go as well...
Later in the afternoon after having a pretty good day together...I asked mys W "about that benefit, would you mind if I accompanied you to the event, It is for a great cause and I would like to support it. Even if not I would still like to buy a ticket."
My W responds "I did not thinlk you would want to go"
Me : "of course I would. it's always good to get out and attend functions. And enjoy doing such thongs with you"
W: "well its invitation only and I already rsvp with just 1 on the invite."
Me: "is it possible to change that? I would like to attend. If not I can just ask 'friend' to add me on his invite"
W: "well I planned on going with the women from work"
Here is where I lost my cool...still in a calm tone.
Me: "that's ok, I get the point. You don't want me there and that is fine I understand."
W: "you are unbelievable"
Me: "did I say something to upset you?"
And she just laughed an had a terrible look on her face. Me reakizing this was heading nowhere fast I just shut my nmouth and carried on. I went to lay in bed and she yelled up to me "where are you? What are you doing?" I replied "laying in bed" she asks "why?' I say "relaxing before work" she said with and attitude "NM"
I go down and ask her if she needed something she said "I thought maybe you wanted to color easter eggs" lol...threw me off. It was a tradition of ours that she blew off this year but a day after she wanted to do it. Of course I was more than happy to do it. We had a good time. Then I went off to work.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
