Don't believe anything she tells you right now. You think she's out of her "fog" when she's not. You just watch. If there's something that you do that somehow conflicts with her "plan" and thoughts, she's going to attack you.
Do you want to save your M? If so, you're going to be the bad guy in her eyes for awhile. If members of her family are your friends, you could ask them to condemn what she's been doing. I mean let's face it. You're still married to her and she is committing A.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.