During her spew the other day she told me her family wants her happy and they are on her side. I said they are my friends and will continue to be. I said just because you want out doesn't mean i have to get punished. i said we don't talk about you, we just have fun together. On further thought i believed it might be best to just let them ease out of my life. i tried to write a letter to them and tell them to honor my wife's desire for us to no longer talk. They all responded upset and said she will just have to deal with it. Any others out their real good friends with the x's family? or any comments on this