He very likely is sharing what little intel he has with OW... they have to organize and regroup for their counter attack now.
He's in shock and needs a few days for reality to settle in. He's doing to try to run damage control for about three days I would say... until he realises he's got no leverage ... either that or you missed someone he may talk to or something.
He's basically going to talk to everyone you already prepared to test the waters... and then he will go back to OW to tell her what he knows...
Their little romance has been blown wide open and now they have to figure what they are gonna do about it... its gonna take them a few days to regroup ... they may have a few fights over this as well.. depending...
You basically tossed a hand grenade into their secret love nest. NOW we have to see if they help each other OUT of there alive or if they run solo and bail on each other... I suspect the latter since this is a DI (double infidelity)
Does OW have kids?
You have OWH's cell # right? Did you confirm with him not to let OW touch it so you can keep in contact with him?
You want to keep that line open so if HE learns something on HIS end, he will tell YOU, and you keep him in the loop too. Its a huge difference if you can get the OP spouse communicating with you to launch affair-busting on both ends... much more effective.
