I am all for supporting you, however a man who hits a woman, with very FEW exceptions, i.e. absolute total accident/coming at him with a knife or gun/ not having his beer ready when he gets home ( kidding) is a Piece of Sh1t in my book.
I cannot in good faith support a decision on your part to be with him unless he has a 'coming to God' moment and begs your forgiveness, and NEVER is physical with you again.
As for your children, they have already been affected by it. They called the OW when he went to jail.
You need help to break a cycle. I am NOT being mean. Battered Person's Syndrome. Seek a consillor.
You are NOT to blame for being hit, or calling the police, he is to blame, however abusive husbands are PERFECT at making their targets feel guilty when they should not.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 04/05/1011:27 PM.
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kidding) is a Piece of Sh1t in my book. 