In my frustrated state this afternoon I knelt down and prayed for God to tell me what He wanted me to do.

Then I got up to go call the lawyer who's contact info I obtained, and begin discussions on proceeding with filing for divorce. But another idea popped in my head to go meet with the guy who had inspired my wife to get baptized.

It was a great talk, and he convinced me to hold on. He's not a pastor, but he said the head pastor is aware of the situation with my W and the OM and is intending to do something about it. Especially given the service yesterday.

I told him that the OM was in the prayer circle yesterday, and he said "I wish I had known that. I would have asked him to leave."

They are going to try to get my W to sit down with them and me together. She is all about that church now, so I'm hoping she will listen to them and agree to meet.

As far as telling the OM to back off, I don't think that will have any effect whatsoever, and I don't trust myself to remain civil with him.


WAW Using God
Me-43
W-40
M-14
S-11
S-9
D-7
EABomb 5/09
Separated 12/09