(((Aver)))) Yeah, me too. Far out of the DB world. Only part of DB makes us focus on ourselves. That's the part I'm trying to focus on.
Guess if you really have no expectation of any kind of response, and the act of sending it will give you peace - then maybe so. My only reason for telling you not to is that I don't want to see you hurt more by placing future conditions on it.
For me, I sent a few from the heart emails & got crushed with a cold hearted reply that sent me to the bottom, & it took a long time to claw my way up again. I just don't want to see that happen to you.
I guess if you can really send it & then not expect anything from X - sure. But for me, I'll never do it again. I won't put myself in the position of vulnerability for him to rip me open again.
It doesn't mean that will happen to you. But I am in self-protection mode, that wall is up for me.
So maybe I'm not the best person to advise you here.
You probably want some other opinions on this, so that's my final 2 cents.
Whatever you decide, I will support you. And I'll be here if you need me. ((( Aver)))
