Interesting journey....I really was intrigued on how she went about breaking up the house....that sounds a heck of a lot more like a WAW than an MLC'er.
My first note-You talk so little about yourself....it is all about her! I see very little detaching through out your posts...it is all about what she is doing....nothing about what you are doing.
So what are you doing?
Let's get some focus on you and off the stuff you have no control over.