I understand my ILs position. If my little girl called me to come to her rescue I would come in an instant. I don't know what they've heard about me from W.

I greeted MIL this morning with a kind word and went about my morning ritual.

I did tip my hand on the finances. Less risk than perhaps some as I have daily access to those accounts (I work for the bank).

W is pursuing today - called me this morning. 'I know you can't talk but I want you to know how bad I feel for hurting you'

I didn't get the chance but I wanted to say 'I thought you weren't doing anything, so how could you be hurting me?'

W called me on my cell phone to let me know when she'll be home after work.

I'm sure there will be more coming my way this evening. I'm starting to feel better about last night.

Everyone has said that if it feels wrong it is probably the right thing to do.


M 40
W 39
D 4
M 5 years
Bomb dropped 08/09
In house separation