This is where it can be difficult. If you're totally dark it's SO much easier than having positive interactions. But I have faith that you can do it.
Go out and get at least a new shirt, if not an entire new outfit. Have a salesperson help you pick something if shopping and fashion aren't your thing. Trust me, W will notice and wonder who you went shopping with. But that's not really the point. If you look great, you will feel great. My credit card just cooled off from last spring's shopping spree and I both looked fantastic and felt great.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g