Originally Posted By: StupidRomeo
What do you mean J? doing taxes and washing cars is fun, no? lol

We did cover her b.day issue already lol but I just realized that DD will be with me not only that day but the day after. She could say HBD to her on the phone but I'm sure DD would want to do more, she loves the b.day stuff...you know blowing out the candles, singing, licking the icing off the candles etc. If I invite W over so we can cut the cake together that seems too much and DD will want mommy to stay frown maybe I'm over thinking this but yeah it's not that straight forward from my view.


Well, that's a tough one. You could try putting it in W's court- "DD would like to celebrate your b-day with you and I think it would be nice if she saw us both there for a cake or something. Is there a particular time/location that works for you?" You could always do a neutral location like a restaurant...
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I don't have IC...what for? it's not me that needs one LOL! j/k Yeah it's just too bad that DD can't be with both of us at the same time.


Actually, I think ALL of us could use someone to talk to these days, whether we need "help" or not wink

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Last night I didn't get to talk to DD, W texted me saying "DD went to sleep early today, sorry. She'd been up late last night and I rushed to get her to bed 2nite" I just replied "ok, thanks".

Anyway, at work lots of things to catch up on here...don't even feel motivated lately.


That sucks, but your response is good- very unattached and unemotional. I know what you mean about work and motivation. Ugh.

When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.