Yesterday I got a refill of my sleeping pills that I haven't used since December. It's strange to need them again.
I taught classes today, and a few students. I did my best, but unfortunately everyone picked up that I wasn't myself. I put on my best smile.
After a lot more thought, I realize there is more to this than I've thought through. A month or so ago, D17 found some papers infront of her computer that W had left there by accident. She had written notes about "to Seattle 2011", and it prompted D17 at that time to ask me if I thought she would try to move seattle by herself. At the time I didn't think she would ever leave the kids until they got out of highschool, and 2011 seemed like an odd year.
Now, I'm pretty sure she has been involved with this OM for quite some time, probably since thanksgiving, but maybe even as far back as last summer. By 2011, my daughter will be in college, and that leaves S14! who hates the local schools. I'm worried that she has plans to take S14! to Seattle.
I spoke with my Lawyer about this concern, and she thinks it's important to get our present 50/50 offer in place as soon as possible.
I spent an hour this afternoon to find the wife of OM. They have a court case pending for divorce, so I was able to look it up and get her name. A little more work and I found her facebook page and her work number and email. I sent her note on facebook asking her to contact me.
Once I get more information from the OM's wife, I'm considering calling one of my inlaws to let them know what's going on, just in case my wife has been lying to them as well. I'm gonna have to think carefully at that.
Thoughts? I appreciate the few of you here so much. I wish I still had input from Puppy, Sandi, Gucci, Robx, or and of the other experts.
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