Hang in there IDU. It sounds like you're communicating very clearly and you're not making it convenient to for her to be a WAW. I'll bet that your strong but calm stance is earning her respect.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.