These posts remind me of something that happened to my ex.

When my ex's mother abandoned her family, she moved to Florida. After the divorce was finalized my ex's father sold their home. Ex lived on a beautiful lake house that he loved. During our marriage he would continuously talk about this home and how much he enjoyed living on the water as a young man.

Ex was devastated when that home was sold. They moved to a very small apartment after the divorce.

Ex now has moved to a lake home with OW. It very much resembles the home he lived in as a child. I believe ex is reliving his childhood where he left off after the divorce. Our divorce symbolizes his parents.

It is very weird and sad......but I hope he finds his answers.

Last edited by TRUSTING; 04/05/10 06:22 PM.
Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11