Today I hear from my oldest that when W took them to the park yesterday, "Mr. OM was there with his kids. Mommy didn't even know they were going to come."
I asked "How do you know? Did mommy tell you to say that?"
"No, I asked her."
So now my W is lying to the kids. And continuing in an adulterous relationship the VERY DAY she was baptized.
Not long after I found this out W called with some random info. I must have sounded perturbed because she asked if I was OK. I said "no".
"What's wrong?"
"We need to talk."
She's coming over later tonight. I wonder if oldest senses something is going on? Why would he ask if she knew Mr. OM was coming? This is 3 times in the last month that he has "randomly" appeared. The park is not unique enough for him to go to, and it is nowhere near where he lives.
I also heard from my MIL that W had asked if she could stop by last month with the OM as they were going to a concert near where MIL lives. MIL is pretty distressed about her daughter; she loves me and really is irritated about the OM. I think my W senses that.
I don't know if this latest news is the straw that broke the camel's back, but it feels like it. It is clear W thinks nothing of adultery. I don't think I can live with a woman like that.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09