OH right or wrong, Pilots advice to be CAUTIOUS is wise.
I used to and still do have a saying.
Fool me once; shame on you. Fool me twice; shame on me. ... Fool me a hundred times, and I a F-ing LBS DBing idiot.
Caution should be your watchword.
He wants you to trust him, then he should expect and WANT to prove it. And that is YOUR timeline NOT one HE thinks he should be. Do not go gently or easily into trusting him again, be willing to, if deserved, but go slow.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK