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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	Quote: how helpless I feel to do anything to help her through this crisis. Uhhh...you CANNOT help her, not because you are capable but shouldn't but because you CANNOT HELP HER. Even if the LBS COULD help...they SHOULDN'T. Personal growth is ummm personal. Its like solitare, any one 'helpful' enough to 'help' should be reminded of the game's name. Do not use your kids to relay messages, do not use your kids in this against her, or to score points with them, or any of that crap. PS - stick to one thread, please. It helps us. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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MLC spouse projecting their negativity onto the BS	mentalradio	04/03/10 12:56 PM
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Re: MLC spouse projecting their negativity onto the BS	HeartsBlessing	04/06/10 06:43 AM
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