Originally Posted By: Swiss Miss
Thanks, a quick reply and then I have to get ready to go to work. I spent all yesterday afternoon going back and forth and I think I have to be open for my son. I feel like it's throwing him to the wolves if I don't.

I read the Penny Tupy book last night and her line about the marital bond not ever really being broken while both former spouses are still living really got to me. And I can tell he is trying to do better at things. Thanks again for your help, you guys are so great to hang around doing this after you've gotten your marriages back together.


OK, I am going to take that as a yes and we can help you with some advice on how to bust the affair. Some of it is already underway. We just need to ask a few more questions to find out where you are at.

I will post more later this afternoon smile