SCH - From what I'm reading the withdrawal part is normal even when they both agree to end it. To me this affair has "ran its course" (I hope). It started in secret (6 months) when it was exposed there was lots of uncertainty between the 2 of them (3months), then they took the plunge and left their spouses and finally got what they wanted and that's when the reality hit (3 months) and now they both want to come home to their families. So I'm really hoping that this is it. We will see....caution remains.

Last edited by Mila; 04/05/10 05:19 PM.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO