I hope that grandpa will pull through. I agree with TF & Eric, I would reach out and offer support as well. If she reacts negatively, don't be disappointed...you should feel good about caring in this situation, no matter what her reaction will be.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO