No, we've already worked everything out and it should be pretty simple, there's really nothing to fight over and he knows I won't make our son suffer by keeping him away from his dad. He's been paying voluntary child support that is more than I'll get when we D (I think he knows that too). We've split up money and are already sharing time with our son according to the custody agreement we've come to.

I think he's flat out horrified he's been caught, he always wants to be the good guy and this is anything but. I'd like to think he's ashamed of himself but maybe just ashamed he got caught. We were getting along great and I could tell he was coming around, and this makes it a lot more difficult and he likes to hide things so this discovery really put a wrench in all that.


M: 35
H: 34
S: 8
Married: 12 years
Together: 16 years
Bomb: 11/2/09
Sep: 1/1/10
EA confirmed: 11/2/09
PA confirmed: 3/28/10