How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Allen,
Its funny you mention fireproof. I had went to church yesterday and it was recommended. Also my therapist recommended the same. A person from the church gave me that they thought was the full length movie but turned out to be not. I have been reading the book "love dare" I am on day 6...most of what is suggest I have already done or have been doing. The book itself has a lot of what has been shared on these forums.

I had tried the flowers being sent to work back on feb. 13th. She said thank you but was upset because she is not about that. She told me that co-workers reacted with "awwwwwe how sweet" and a male co-worker said "I admired that" but to her not so much.

Something that I considered positive my W is no longer doing. For about Z years now my wife had always text msg me as she went from place to place toi ensure she was ok. It was "our little thing" even up till the past week she had done this but now she is slowly stopping...

It baffles me. When this all began my wife still gave me hugs, kisses, ILY and things were at there worse but now things are so much better than they were 4-5 weeks ago but she does none of that.

I have to admit at times my mind tells me "I don't think she love me anymore and she is not the same person I love. This stuff is not working, I'm just prolonging the inevitable." But of course I keep on hoping that I am having an impact and one day she'll see the light.