You're right, she does continue to deny things. Her question this morning about if I checked her phone is further proof. I have looked at it on occasion and there is nothing there that is damning evidence, just the quantity of communication and times of it that suggest it can't all be school business.

She keeps saying how she can't get over the Hooter's receipt. I told her it was someone giving me her phone#. I'm sure she will say she was going to work on things if it wasn't for that. BS. If that got her thinking, good. If she's going to use that for proof that I'm cheating with everything that she has done, that's fine too. I'm done. I will not and haven't raised my voice and remain calm. If she decides to move out, I may lose my resolve, but only here and not in front of her. She has to want to stay and I can't make her, I know this now. I have made clear that I don't want to live in the past and want to move forward and make things better than before and not just the same.

Expecting the worst, hoping for the best!


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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