Like if you could prove that the OM viewed the wife as just a piece of ass. This one could be hard to prove, but if he posted any conquests or pictures of your wife on the internet.
In my case this worked HUGE - OM W sent me a text from OM stating he wanted to work it out with his W and that my W and ANOTHER woman meant nothing to him...which i showed my W.
My W = piece of ass to him (talk about a fog clearer)
but anywho OIN - sounds like you are doing well, keep at it.
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit