You did well with your child.

It is only human to have a spark of hope, if not for the marriage but for the sanity of a ex. We can still wish for our ex's mental health to return.

Kids are so smart. They sometimes know the truth before we do.

You are good to keep your guard up. The lies don't just disappear over night.

You deserve only decency and respect..... remember that.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11