Seen H for about 3 hours yest while we did Easter with the kids. We were cordial to each other. I was hoping he wouldn't bring up the D papers, but he did. However, I thought I handled it very well. I told him I would like to hold off on that for at least 6 months. He is going to be signing a 6 month lease at his apt he will be renting at the end of this month. I told him that I'm much healthier and can handle the house, kids, school, and work but I didn't want to have to deal with the D right now. I explained how it would benefit him with health insurance & credit cards, etc. And that I hope he'll change his mind about our M, but if not I will be ok and we can end it in 6 months. He replied with telling me he doesn't think I will be able to leave him alone in that 6 months (man he thinks very highly of himself).He thinks we should just get it over with as soon as possible it would be better for both of us to just move on. The convo didn't last any longer because the kids were around.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10