The last time I spoke to my ex (4 months ago) he was still blaming me also. I am responsible for him being broke and for him having to borrow money from his father. Being dark is a blessing.
They are searching for someone to verify/acknowledge the reasons their life is so bad. If you are not there to do it, they have to eventually look within or forever stay in crisis.
Stay strong sister, we will get through this.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
