The last time I spoke to my ex (4 months ago) he was still blaming me also. I am responsible for him being broke and for him having to borrow money from his father. Being dark is a blessing.
They are searching for someone to verify/acknowledge the reasons their life is so bad. If you are not there to do it, they have to eventually look within or forever stay in crisis.
Stay strong sister, we will get through this.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Ohh...so let's talk about passive contact. As in googling the ex...I did this and found OW pics. Yes, I know I am not supposed to look but I did.
Have to say that based on the pics, things are not looking like paradise in la la land, but at this point I keep trying to tell myself that it doesn't much matter; this is ex's life and what he wanted and he has shown me that I am not welcome.
OK. Momentary break in my routine here; I am under stress at the moment and hence the need to look. I'll be back to my regular self as time goes by....
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
