W and i are doing pretty well right now. She smiles more than i have seen her in almost a year. she is more affectionate, loving and in better mood, and wants to spend time with me. We have been intimate and there is a pasion we have not had in a long time.
we have our moments, not all is rosey and fine - but are talking about them....when necessary (i am not wanting explicit "details" nor do i think i ever will.)
one thing we bump heads with is the inevatible face to face that i will have with OM....she has a feeling i am going to explode on him....have to admit thought has crossed my mind. I think when this date arrives that i will seek the high road if he tries to speak to me with something like "I really have nothing to say to you" then go on my way (although man i would love to just lay him out)
like i said a while back our sons play on same athletic teams so would me laying a boundry down with W about even being near him while at fields be inappropiate? think about the setting, we will be in proximity to him i am sure. I don't even want her wave to, or say "hi" to him....should i convey that to her?(edit how do i convey that with out being an a$$hole?)
on lighter side - at grocery this week-end with W and D. OM W best friend knows what has went on and also knows us, was at store and saw just me getting fruit and asked how i was doing, then as i walked back to W i saw her face all worried....lets just say W was VERY aware of where she was in store at all times....did not want to have to look her in the eye i think....or she may just not wanted to get in a fight....lol
kind of made me chuckle inside, is that sadistic?
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M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
