Thanks everyone! Four whistles, I'm honored Puppy.
This is my script for her. She may or may not have read H's emails by now knowing that I know, so the element of surprise may be gone... but this is what I planned on saying. Trying to keep it friendly at the beginning to throw her off so I can get it all out... and say in a non-needy way that (1) we've been intimate, (2) he has no assets, (3) he's done this before, you are not special.

I had wanted to call you a few weeks ago and apologize for the thoughts I had had about you. You see, H is a cheater, it’s a pattern with him. And when he befriended you, I thought you were the next affair waiting to happen. He tells these girls they’re his soul mate, he loves them, he buys them a necklace as a symbol of their love, he tells them he’s going to marry them. H and I are having financial problems now – he likes to spend money we don’t have and he has not been taking care of our apartment house, so we’re filing bankruptcy and losing the house. He’s stressed about that. As an example, in the midst of us trying to dig ourselves out of over $75k in debt, not counting the houses, he’s looking to buy a new car and a motorcycle. It looks bad on my credit especially since both houses are in my name.

In any case, some of his friends that he confided in told me what was really going on. So, now I’m calling you to say, leave my husband alone. You’re hurting our entire family, and you have your own marriage with a husband that loves you to work on. Not to mention that now I have to go get tested again for STDs, which really sucks. I hope you were smart enough to use condoms.

Little advice for you, go back to your husband, admit what you did, apologize and work on your marriage.


Positive Lifetime Attitude Award: http://tinyurl.com/2dssttf

H in MLC?: http://tinyurl.com/23fabv8

Infidelity: Expose or Not? http://tinyurl.com/26ksmfj