Right on Hot Sports Momma! Good deal on the H front. Have you looked into the "investigating" any further? I know you can't go the cell phone route but what about a PI?
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too