I think my H is having MLC

[jtish7234]

I have always known my husband was depressed and had unresolved issues from his childhood. He has opened up to me a few times in the past but nothing recently. When I would suggest that he go and talk to a therapist, he refused and said that he didn't believe in them. I mainly asked him to do this, because when I would offer my suggestion on how to maybe fix or help the situation, he would get very upset and then it would cause fights between us. I know he has gone to see a therapist, but I don't think his therapist is doing him much good. To me it seems like the therapist is helping to feed into his selfish behavior. I wish that my husband would be put on some meds, I think this would help him tremenously. My FIL has even said that H should have been put on meds when he was younger, but they never did it.

My H had made several comments over the past few months that lead me to believe that he still is uncertain about alot of things. In an email, he has said that down the road if get back together we will deal with the OW issue. Or I'm just not feeling the love I need to stop the divorce. When H moved into his new apt, he told me 'there just isn't enough room here for all 4 of us.' His mixed messages have me so confused as to what is going on.

But I know as long as his 'new' so called friends and OW keep showing him this new lifestyle, there is no chance for the boys and I in his life. He has even gone as far to tell me that he has learned he needs sex everyday. But I truely feel that the sex is just a cover up for all the pain that he feels inside.

So all I can do is, GAL for now. I am getting ready to sign my 3 yr old and 1 yr old up for swimming lessons. Not to mention, I need to go shopping for clothes for my new job. Since all of this came out in OCt 2009, I have lost over 40 lbs, so none of my old dress clothes fit anymore.